Queen's Speech 2012

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/education-18004852

Just got this from the BBC website. Looks promising if the Government actually keep their word it could be the result that families need most! In particular I note the text I have copied and pasted here.....

The government is also pressing ahead with controversial plans aimed at strengthening the rights of divorced fathers to see their children.

The Queen's Speech said: "Ministers intend to strengthen the law to ensure children have a relationship with both their parents after family separation, where that is safe, and in the child's best interests."

War! What Is It Good For?

Recently on the news we heard about six British members of the armed forces who were killed on active duty in Afghanistan. Today on the news we hear about a group of Afghanistan people who were killed by a member of the U.S Military who has gone crazy after an apparent breakdown. Just an average day in the Middle East then!

Why am I writing about it here? Well for days after the incident that took the lives of the British Servicemen I was asked to post comments and pictures etc to show respect and remember the fallen heroes who had sacrificed their own lives in the name of freedom. Today however, I received no similar requests to remember the innocent Afghans who had been killed. I find it very hard to come to terms with the way we all have mass hysteria each time a member of the armed forces gets killed in action and yet we as humans seem to ignore deaths of the innocent. It actually sickens me that we are all losing our humanity. 

I posted a status on my Facebook page to highlight this and it started a lengthy debate. A lot of people seem to share my view but I doubt any would actually stand up and be counted if it came to calling for world peace. 

So sad how we value human being because of their race or religion, the way they dress or who they have sex with. We are all human and there is only one race THE HUMAN RACE! Last year I called for change and throughout many countries we have seen it. Some things still need to change though and the call for change goes on! 

3 Mobile

Have you ever had one of those weeks when everyone you have contact with has the potential to be TWAT of THE WEEK? Well this week has been just like that! Last year I had trouble with my mobile phone which is on a 3 contract. For months the screen kept freezing and I could not do anything with it. Eventually I was advised (after numerous emails and phone calls and visits to the local 3 store) to take my phone in for repair as it would only take a week for me to get it back in full working order. However, to hand in my phone and get another one whilst mine was being fixed I had to pay a £30 deposit. I gave in and paid the deposit as I was advised I would get it back in a week when my own phone was back! ONE MONTH LATER I had accumulated a number of bank charges as I had gone overdrawn due to two bills not being paid both of which came to the total of £30! Bit of a coincidence! 

Whilst my phone was in for repairs I was handed a phone that was nowhere near the standard that I was paying for and in fact despite it being called a "skype" phone the skype function on it no longer worked, nor did much else! So I was paying my usual contract bill for two months without using any of the facilities I had signed up to. Not forgetting that for almost five months before I had a phone that did not work properly anyway so in total of about half of last year I was paying for a contract phone for which I was not able to use the full services I paid for! 

Here we are again and over the past few days my phone has started to malfunction AGAIN! As I type here all I can actually guarantee doing on my phone is text and call. Nothing else is stable. So where do we go from here? I have emailed 3 and was quite amused when I had a response from them telling me that they had tried to call me on my phone but could not get through! Funny as the phone was sitting right next to me at the time! So I replied to their email and have given them 2 days to offer me a working phone similar or better to my original phone, otherwise I would consider this as a breach of contract on their part! 

So let's see what happens in the next couple of days! However until then 3 get their TWAT OF THE WEEK AWARD! 

Business Letters!

How annoying is it when you have a letter delivered to your door informing you that a company has "written" to you before and that they are unhappy that you have not written back! Well to be honest I don't write many letters and most of my banking and other official business is done over the internet. BUT! Do you know what pisses me off more than these letters? It is the fact that more often than not these letters which were supposedly "written" previously never actually made it to my letterbox! It is like someone phoning you and before the answer machine kicks in they ring off and then when you talk at a time later the person asks why you didn't call them back? 

Yes Welcome Finance I am talking about you! 

What is a bit of a spooky coincidence is the fact that just a day before I had a letter from a company informing me that as a customer of Welcome Finance I am asked to contact them as they believe I have been overcharged for a loan taken out a while ago (actually while I was still married!) 

I have replied to both companies obviously and I now wonder which one will contact me again first!! 

So the nominations for TWAT of the week lately have been quite different, especially as last year there was mainly only one nominee and recipient! Oh well, this week the TWAT of the Week award definitely goes to the person who just sent me a letter from Welcome Finance! 

And We Are Supposed To Believe In Our System!

http://www.realfathersforjustice.org/news/index.php?itemid=650

This story absolutely breaks my heart. Thank god my ex and I told the system where to go and we made our own decision then told the court what was going to happen. The people in Our System make me sick to the stomach. They have no honour, they have no soul. People like D.B of crapcass are scum and now they have claimed another life. May these people who push parents to this rot in hell themselves.

Invisible Partner!

The other day I posted here about the retards at Child Tax Credit who mistakenly tell me when I separated from the children's mother, even though I have now sent them ample paperwork to prove the actual date we separated was in fact a good 6 months after they claim! Good enough you would think! Not at all.

The fuckwits have informed the Housing people at the council that I have a partner and as such my claim for housing benefit has been suspended! Would you fucking believe it? I wouldn't have until today! Mrs K Bamber sort your staff out! I have NO PARTNER LIVING WITH ME, I CLAIM FOR ONE 4 YEAR OLD CHILD, I SEPARATED FROM THE CHILDREN'S MOTHER IN FEBRUARY 2009, NOW WE HAVE SHARED RESIDENCE I CLAIM  FOR ONE CHILD SHE CLAIMS FOR THE OTHER, WE DO NOT LIVE TOGETHER, FFS HOW HARD CAN IT BE? 

TWAT OF THE WEEK IS IN SERIOUS DANGER OF BEING A DAILY AWARD! MAKES ME FUCKING SICK TO THINK SOMEONE ELSE IS EARNING OTHER THAN CRAPCASS! 

January 18th 2012

It has been a long time since I wrote anything here. I know some have missed me as they cannot help but look for a reason to have me locked up and my children taken away again. Special message for you....FUCK OFF it ain't happening! 

Fact of the matter is plain and clear, the stress of splitting up is bad enough but made even worse by the intervention of the legal system. People within it do not give a shit about the happiness of the children involved and sometimes the bitterness between the two parents after the blame games start are just fuel for those who earn money making sure such cases are dragged out as long as possible and those who are there to work in the best interests of the children have more important things to do so find it very easy to make names for themselves by making up a load of shit and lies to enhance their chances of promotion or keeping their jobs. They are a little like the traffic warden who gets a bonus the more tickets they issue for parking, so it does not matter that the car is parked legally they will start put a ticket on the car and wait for appeals etc before claiming they made a mistake! YES YOU KNOW I AM TALKING ABOUT YOU Ms D.B! 

So how do you get around the interference of the do-gooders and scum bags that would do their best to make sure that the best interests of the children are not taken into account? 

BYPASS IT! 

Yes I know when families break up there is a lot of bitterness and blaming each other for the way it broke down. Children are used as pawns in a game of tit for tat and usually the system sides with the mother despite the fact that in some cases the mother is a lying deceitful evil person.

Anyway enough of the muppets in the family law system that don't actually give a shit for those they are supposed to be working for we have more important matters to address!

I refer to the lovely people at the Child Tax Credit Office. Especially Mrs K Bamber with whom I have had numerous correspondence with and at least one telephone conversation! You see I have a big problem with people telling me I am wrong when in fact I know I am right. Especially when I have undeniable proof and legal documentation to support me. This has happened continuously over the past three years obviously with those fuckwits at Crapcass and in the court system who continued to falsely accuse me of things and events that never happened! Not the only people to have done so and I am sure they won't be the last.

The Child Tax Credit people however are probably playing in the same league as the lying retard in crapcass. Apparently they have information that the children's mother and I separated in August 2008! Which comes as a bit of a shock to all of us seeing as all of the recent court paperwork categorically states (signed and sealed with the numerous solicitors, witnesses and judges we dealt with) and VERY CLEARLY shows we separated in February 2009! How can I be so sure about the date. Because I moved into my parents on that day and only a few weeks before we went to London all together for a weekend where my eldest daughter and I attended the Arsenal v Plymouth Argyle FA Cup match at the Emirates! So over this past weekend I have gone through the box files of paperwork accumulated over the past three years for the courts and dug out a few examples of letters and statements that clearly show the actual date of separation. I wonder how long it takes them to get back to me now and what excuses they will think up to get out of this mess!

I kept the receipt of posting and am working out cost of ink and photocopying and man hours of course as I think if I am doing their job for them I should be compensated for it! Only fair I think!

So my first TWAT OF THE WEEK AWARD for 2012 must go to Mrs Bamber and her staff at the Child Tax Credit office!

Happy New Year everyone and remember if you are about to go through the rather traumatic family court system, do yourself a big favour and talk to each other then work it out between you and think of the children then go to your solicitors and the twats who work in the system, stick your two fingers up at them and tell them to go find some other flesh to feed from as you are not interested in their corrupt system.